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Why I Dont Make Resolutions

I don't make resolutions because I don't keep them. That is it!

Thinking back, I have never keep a New Year's Resolution; however, throughout my 20's I have always made them.

Instead of making resolutions, sit and plan for your year.

Map out your major goals and your sub- goals.

Chart how you are going to accomplish these goals.

Actually, get up and work on accomplishing your goals.

Vision board your goals, dreams and aspirations.

Never give up even if you feel like you cannot make it.

Positive Wednesdays-Unconditional Love

Today's Positive Wednesday will be a little personal (actually a lot-personal).  I have known my soul mate for years. However, i was unable to truly love this person because i did not love and accepted myself. Today, we are finally on our journey towards planning a life together after approximately six years. With this in mind, today's Positive Wednesdays is about self love and self acceptance.

It is time to love yourself unconditionally!!!!

I was able to accept myself after coming to this realization. It does not matter the mistakes you have made (we have all made many). It does not matter imperfections you might have (no body is perfect). It is never too late to forgive or love yourself.

I also thought about the positive aspects of myself. This is the moment for you to self assess yourself.

At this very moment, you may be saying to yourself that you have any number of admirable qualities.  You are a loyal friend, a caring person, someone who is smart, dependable, fun to be around.  That's wonderful, and I'm happy for you, but let me ask you this:  are you being any of those things to yourself? 


“You must love yourself before you love another. By accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy.”

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~Phillip C. McGraw, The Ultimate Weight Solution: The 7 Keys to Weight Loss Freedom, 2003


  1. Amen to that! Thanks for visiting my blog, I really enjoyed this post! Am looking forward to reading more in the future.

  2. Great thoughts, good to be here, following u from MBC..

  3. thanks for sharing this positive vibes!

    Following from MBC! I hope you also stop by my blog and follow. Thanks.


  4. Thank you for sharing your positive thoughts. We all need a little reminder sometimes to love ourselves. Have a blessed week. Thank you for stopping by and following. :)

  5. Great post! starting the morning off with positive attitude, thoughts and actions. I
    agree love yourself first before loving others. It took me many years and mistakes to realize that. Happy Wednesday!

  6. A beautiful reminder to love ourselves. Thanks for bringing positivity to my Wednesday.

    Following you from MBC. Would love for you to stop by and check out my blog.


  7. Thanks for following me! I am now following you back from mbc. I love your positive attitude good job with your blog!

  8. I love this post! What a wonderful blog:)
    My Meddling Mind

  9. I love the look of your blog! Beautiful! I need a kick every now and then to love myself as I love others. I'm my own worst critic. Thanks for the kick today! I love ya for it. : ) Thanks for the follow over at http://LYLASPlus.com
    Feel free to stop by our other LYLAS site, http://LYLASandCo.com Have a good day!


  10. Hey! Thanks for this post. It really served as a pick me up today after the week I have had with my Uncle's passing.

    Check out my blog at: http://msjanetjones.blogspot.com/

    I really appreciate positiveness today!


  11. following from MBC. "like" the positive approach which is what i always try to do. some days it can be a struggle, but thankfully i get to try again. I hope you'll consider following me back

  12. What a wonderful post! And so true! I am happy that you and your loved one are doing so well! Love the positive thoughts!

  13. i needed this post today! thank-you! and thank-you for the follow, i am returning the favor! =)

  14. O what a great reminder. I am my worst worst worst critic! I need to stop and appreciate my gifts internally (me) and my blessings externally (others)around me.

  15. I woke up on the wrong side of the bed this morning and this is just what I needed.
    Thanks for following. I am now returning the love.


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