tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post4908512776867145221..comments2023-10-23T11:32:01.777-07:00Comments on Lioness Rebirth: The EVOLUTION: Raising an Inter-racial ChildLionesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08414400451307428609noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post-46303657645442229292011-05-20T14:58:10.550-07:002011-05-20T14:58:10.550-07:00I've had to have the same talk with my son bec...I've had to have the same talk with my son because he was asking the same questions and saying the same things and that was after he began kindergarten. Makes me wonder what if something is said, or if he just notice this difference. <br /><br />But these are great discussions and they grow up much more confidenctColette Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04844522784600855200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post-15887894723163926042011-04-06T06:03:44.159-07:002011-04-06T06:03:44.159-07:00Smart answer for an unexpected sensitive question....Smart answer for an unexpected sensitive question.<br />I'm now following you.<br />Here is my blog<br />http://life-reflexions.blogspot.comNekkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17255199098213885639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post-88775561634199069552011-04-03T15:46:27.679-07:002011-04-03T15:46:27.679-07:00Your adorable daughter is obviously smart and curi...Your adorable daughter is obviously smart and curious. Your response was perfect!<br />(Found you thru TRDC)mom-mom-momhttp://www.mom-mom-mom.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post-511932582958752872011-04-02T20:36:19.293-07:002011-04-02T20:36:19.293-07:00Stopping by from the trdc linkup, and wanted to te...Stopping by from the trdc linkup, and wanted to tell you how eloquently you wrote about this, and am glad to hear how you spoke to your daughter about her heritage.Jennahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06666555088992266185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post-44606211178038945522011-04-02T18:20:23.694-07:002011-04-02T18:20:23.694-07:00Hi, new follower from the hop (wanted to be #100, ...Hi, new follower from the hop (wanted to be #100, but the next follower can do that I guess). Would appreciate a follow back please!JustFindIt4Uhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02689868521032918956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post-53845951397733351692011-04-02T11:16:52.820-07:002011-04-02T11:16:52.820-07:00Newest follower with GFC through the weekend blog ...Newest follower with GFC through the weekend blog hop<br /><br />http://40plussinglebbw.blogspot.com/Denise Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08908929355262961686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post-16108540133690657842011-04-02T06:44:33.624-07:002011-04-02T06:44:33.624-07:00I have four children. I am white and my husband i...I have four children. I am white and my husband is black. My kids' have very light skin and often are not recognized as part black...unless by other black people..lol. I have two very fair redheads and two with light skin and dark hair. My youngest even has straight hair while my two other daughters have super curly red hair. I get questions all the time! For the most part we have no trouble or have not been treated poorly. My kids do not seem to have any identity issues. Maybe because we are just causal about it or maybe because it just hasn't come up. I am waiting for the day it will be an issue. Now, I have been asked if my kids all have the same father before...we have had little things happen but more good than bad. I wrote a post on it over a year ago and it is still one of my most popular posts! lol. It's on my popular post sidebar if you are interested. :)Richele McFarlinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14778804579496946142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post-48374078942919062502011-03-29T17:30:43.400-07:002011-03-29T17:30:43.400-07:00Best of luck to you and your daughter. I hope the...Best of luck to you and your daughter. I hope the world is kind to her.<br /><br />And, I think it's a smart call to try to protect your daughter's identity. <br /><br />Khareen<br />www.notexpectingtoomuch.wordpress.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post-8863300169804263252011-03-29T17:09:00.735-07:002011-03-29T17:09:00.735-07:00Thanks for passing by http://www.momstreehouse.com...Thanks for passing by http://www.momstreehouse.com/ and I am now following you back. I know one day my son will ask me about the different language I speak (spanish) as I am the only one that talks to him in spanish. (my family is all over) so he learning more of his italian culture. I'm hoping he incorporates both, but only t ime will tell. Will visit soon again. : )Johannahttp://www.momstreehouse.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post-62233363256734062482011-03-28T20:10:39.654-07:002011-03-28T20:10:39.654-07:00She is beautiful! You handled her questions like ...She is beautiful! You handled her questions like a very thoughtful mommy. Stopping by to check out your blog. Dena from www.centsationalsaver.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10617800718636638682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post-38072009689435588542011-03-28T18:29:46.835-07:002011-03-28T18:29:46.835-07:00Thank you for your great post! I do think some chi...Thank you for your great post! I do think some children are more aware of diffrences. Athough my husband and I are both Italian, I have german on my dads side and my husband has Irish on his dads. My husband and I have dark hair and eyes, our oldest has blonde hair and blue eyes. He was always uncomfortable with the fact that he looked "different" than us. When my daughter was born with the same dark hair and eys as my husband it came up again. When I was pregant with our youngest, Tom kept praying that the baby would be blonde, blue eyed! Our son has very light brown hair and green eyes! This satisfied my son! Thanks for following me, I'm following back from MBCAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09107661365906909620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post-49857965132448353852011-03-28T13:36:42.148-07:002011-03-28T13:36:42.148-07:00I have had the same questions from my two little b...I have had the same questions from my two little boys (3 and 5y/o). I am African American and my husband is Croatian and Italian. The boys even have different characteristics from each other and that makes for more questions. I think that we have answered those questions really well and they both seem fine with our answers. Every once in awhile they will say that someone they saw or met looks like one of us and we can tell they mean that they have a similar complexion. <br />Thanks for writing about this and look forward to more great posts. <br />Your MBC friend<br />www.sunflowerdoula.blogspot.com<br />www.townandrivers.blogspot.comMichelle-Nichollehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03440761778292519982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post-79436564193934282282011-03-28T13:30:21.212-07:002011-03-28T13:30:21.212-07:00Stopping by from Bloggy Moms to say hello and make...Stopping by from Bloggy Moms to say hello and make new friends. This is an interesting piece. I raised my inter-racial son (19 y/o) and never encountered any questions. When he was an infant, we went to the mall and some lady asked me if I was his nanny. I think that is the only issue we ever had. On my blog, I don't post any of my families pics. I occasionally slip in a pic of myself. Once something is posted on the internet, we have no control over where it goes and we cannot get it back.<br /><br />http://www.ourbananamoments.com<br />facebook fan page: http://www.facebook.com/ourbananamoments<br /><br />MarshaAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08251763238399815427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post-34201096046950489132011-03-27T07:41:09.855-07:002011-03-27T07:41:09.855-07:00I haven't gotten to this stage yet, my daughte...I haven't gotten to this stage yet, my daughters only two but I know that the questions will come with age. I have suffered from identity issues myself as a child, my mom is dark, my dad is carmel, and I am somewhere in-between....My skin complexion changes so much it is ridiculous, some parts of the year I am light bright, other times red-bone, other times almost Hershey (especially when I am in the DR)....but one thing that remains with me through all my color phases is that we all are created equal no matter the color....I know that my daughter is gonna' catch some heck from some people, but the reality is that not everyone is gonna' like ya anyway...so keep it movin' and realize that God created you exactly the way he wanted you to be....Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08649267948141693208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post-57537974652422609972011-03-26T21:41:02.434-07:002011-03-26T21:41:02.434-07:00o yea! I am here from the hop! HEy!!!!!o yea! I am here from the hop! HEy!!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post-1418405067787459602011-03-26T21:40:35.443-07:002011-03-26T21:40:35.443-07:00I think it is good to talk about our differences b...I think it is good to talk about our differences but not just color even accents etc. That way the realize that there are so many different wonderful kinds of people....the timing however is so tricky. I usually bring these issues up as the child brings them up but I prepare myself in advance.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post-31658867926179446422011-03-26T19:58:27.494-07:002011-03-26T19:58:27.494-07:00Hi!
I am now following you from MBC :-)
You...Hi!<br /> I am now following you from MBC :-)<br /><br />You can find me here~<br />http://debshere.blogspot.com/<br /><br />Thanks!<br />DebDeb Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12380876862191726011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3451453565796955449.post-84573268395808211142011-03-26T16:13:20.337-07:002011-03-26T16:13:20.337-07:00Your post is great!. Writing this matter is intere...Your post is great!. Writing this matter is interesting. Am also a descendant of massacred by racial conflicts, I'm Israeli and Jewess.<br /><br />Now I'm living in Brazil, predominantly Christian. When I tell for them that my religion is Judaism and that is normal for me people of different ethnicities (like Brazilians) because has Jews of all colors in various countries, they look at me "from the side ..." (laughs).<br /><br />I'm thinking about my baby Hannah. Does she still will find a world where children are not taught to understand the differences, accept and live normally?<br /><br />I think the parents should teach their children, before school.Isha Shirihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02576542401838400200noreply@blogger.com